Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Biasanya, ketika dilanda kekecewaan yang mendalam terhadap seseorang, hal yang paling ampuh dilakukan adalah sama seperti yang dilakukan teman ku ini. Yup kubur dalam-dalam semua yang ada, sedih, senang, bahagia, tawa, tangis, apa pun yang ada, kemudian buang jauh2x semuanya. Akhirnya emang jd plain, marah enggak, sedih enggah, bahagia jg enggak. Datar, tanpa ada emosi apapun.

Aku melakukannya, berapa kali..

Tapi kali ini, tidak bisa begitu.. tidak bisa... tidak bisa memulai dengan yang baru, harus dilanjutkan apa adanya, karena emang harus begitu. jalan ini harus dilalui dengan sama, seperti jalan kemarin-kemarin... kekecewaan itu tidak akan hilang karena tidak bisa dihilangkan.

Smoga Allah membuka hati ini dengan keluasan sabar, meneguhkan iman ini tuk selalu berbuat baik tanpa pamrih!!!

Mari melanjutkan HIDUP!!!

~Shinta

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Jd kepikiran terus, gara2x kasus bullying yang dihadapi Bintang di sekolahnya. Sebenarnya anak nakal itu emang dasarnya nakal, jd mo di didik gmn aja gak ngaruh, ato sebenarnya anak nakal itu adalah hasil didikan dirumah *ntah itu gagal mendidik, ato emang dididik supaya nakal*

Sependek pengetahuanku, sebenarnya energi anak kecil itu besar, jd emang harus di arahkan supaya energi itu akhirnya tidak digunakan untuk hal-hal yang bersifat destruktif. selama ini dalam mendidik Bintang aku emang selalu mengarahkan energi fisiknya untuk bs keluar maksimal, klo gak pasti nih anak jd gak kooperatif.

Mungkin orang akan heran klo ngeliat aku dan suami dengan santainya membiarkan Bintang manjat2x, lompat-lompat, lari-lari, bahkan kadang emang kita meminta dia untuk main bola lari kesana kemari. Yah.. kami memang mengizinkan sepanjang hal tersebut aman, alhamdulillah setiap kompromi yang kita lakukan dengan Bintang selalu berjalan dengan mudah.

Begitu juga dengan masalah berkelahi. keknya dah jiwa anak cowo seneng berkelahi itu. Jadi, selama ada papa-nya Bintang selalu mendapat lawan untuk main berantem-beranteman, sambil diladenin main berantem-beranteman yang kadang emang jadi berantem beneran *ya bapak ya anak gak mau ngalah* sering di nasehatin, bahwah klo berantem cuma boleh sama cowo, cowo itu harus melindungi cewe/perempuan, jd mama, nenek, ayu dan temen-temen perempuan harus di lindungi oleh Bintang.

Dan entah mengapa, dokrin2x tersebut dan hal2x yang kami terapkan berhasil membuat orang2x bilang bahwa bintang gak nakal... nurut bangets sih Bintang, ato ada sodara yang bilang, terlalu bageur buat cowok.. tp ttp lincah...

hm.. apa emang dasarnya Bintang baik yah jd lebih gampang ku didik ??

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Suntuk, capek, apalah.. smuanya nyampur. Alhamdulillah berhasil Me Time. Ngapain aja? cuma baca buku, baca koran, ngemil, di tempat tidur, meninggalkan semua peraturan disiplin rumah, dengerin lagu-lagu zaman SMU, melupakan jadwal rutin ngurus anak, melupakan menu2x masakan yang harus di buat.

Hm.. murah ya ternyata, dan akhirnya berhasil !!! yipieee....

dimulai dr jam 4 pagi, bangun sholat subuh, bobo lagi jam 7 baru bangun. hehehe.. anak jg dibiarkan bangun siang. Untungnya gak lama setelah itu tukang roti lewat, jd kita sarapan cuma ama roti, hihi... trus untungnya lg, anak tetangga langsung ngajakin Bintang maen.. udah deh, bablas.. sampe jam 10 bener2x menikmati hidup di kamar dengan koran2x, cemilan, dan musik, gak mikiran makannya anak, suami, mandinya anak, rumah mo gmn2x... pokoknya hari ini bebas merdeka dari segala aturan disiplin !!

jam 11, me time selesai. waktunya mandi, Bintang jg dah harus mandi :D, lunch cukup dengan bayem bening dan tempe goreng.. ah, nikmatnya hari ini...

~stillMissingU

Have you watched Meteor Garden (taken from hana yori dango, one popular manga in Japan), taiwan version ?? Often, Tau Ming Se in the drama said that "what is the use of apology, if there are police out there??" This character in the movie believes that any conflicts could be settled in police office, if and only if the police system is trustworthy. Whenever the axioma is not fulfilled, ultimately it violates the belief of the citizens to the police system (recalling the WARP and SARP in microeconomics, in chapter 7 Revealed Prefered).

What has been shown in televesion in Indonesia recently (even until last few hours, n will be continued within next days), telling us that the credibility of police organization is in stake. The panick movement of the police by arresting Bibit and Chandra (leaders of Corruption  Eradication Agency), exhibit inconcistency of commitment in eradicating corruption in Indonesia.  Despite the possibility that Bibit and Chandra could be guilty as well, our confidence on police system is declining due to unreasonable decision.  The high level of conspiracy by certain people who seeks for individual advantages creates a bad image for police organization.

This uproar should become the concerns to all of us due to a possibility of a chaos in beuaracracy, between organizations. Such case in point has been displayed by the conflict created simultaneously between Police and Corruption Eradication Agency. Even, the attorney officers have an important part in worsening the beuracracy image. It seems that people have no place to turn to. Afterwards, it would create a bad impact to the economy due to the lack of confidence to public services. Surely, we wont this to happen.

Having a heavy task to generate a right decision is on the hands of our President (and their team). How far our country will go and what would our country be like depends on the decision made. Let's just hope that our president is not part of the consipiracy as been mentioned in the tape. However, it needs extra effort, energy, and time to make everything settled as people expect. It is really a hard job. Thus, we all should support and make a move to have a better future.

Above all, the root of this problem is the mentality. Nothing can compare to worse mentality which creates a hell future. In order to avoid it, we should start by edifying ourselves.

Hehe ... so start from now 3, 2, 1 ! gooo ... woooooooooooooossttttttttt ....

(stress mode on)

*empowering her self for noticing her exam result

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

hihihi.. lg gak bs bobo lg, nulis dulu ah.

Ibhroh sebulan lebih mama menginap dirumah ku adalah diriku jd tau perkembangan dunia persinetronan Indonesia :D ternyata, gak berubah dari dulu sama aja, tokoh antagonisnya pintar dan licik, sementara tokoh protagonisnya baik bangets, lemah banget, dan sial bangets. Yah, udah alur cerita gak mendidik, penokohan jg gak mendidik, apa lagi dialoq. Klo kehidupan seperti sinetron dah pasti gak akan ada yang mau jadi orang baik di negara ini. Ya sapa lah yang mau menderita panjang.. normalnya gak ada manusia yang mau menderita. Sejatinya semua manusia di berikan Allah insting untuk menghindari penderitaan.

Heran, dari sekian juta orang penduduk indonesia masak iya cuma pas romadhon bs dpt tontonan yang bagus ?? masak iya orang indonesia nih gak ada yang bs bikin hiburan yang mendidik dan menghibur ?? tp gak heran sih, jumlah yang merasa terhibur dengan dengan tontonan seperti itu jg masih jutaan jg :D so impas lah, ada yg jual ada yang beli :)

Dah ah, siap2x bobo lg, sebelum pusing mikirin gmn caranya nyulap anak kecil biar mirip dude herlino :p

~Shinta

It starts from macroeconomic test, one of the question is about rational expectations from the contractionary monetary policy. At that time, i had this mental block like the previous day when i had microeconomics, a disease that would start ruining my future, and should be cured asap, lol. Therefore, i cant think logically what i should do with the question. Afterwards, when i ended up discussing it with one of my brightest friends in the class, at least i got some hints of what i should answer actually. However, the exam has been over. Now that i can do that learning from mistakes.

Yeah, that's what history always offers. History provides hard lesson for some of us. So is a country. History becomes an important element to make a contingency plan so that unexpected thing could be anticipated. Regarding to my experience in the past (recent past : mid exam), i could actually calculate my ability in facing the exam. Indeed, i could make a strategy, good one, in order to have optimum expectation.

What Lucas proposed in macroeconomics works the same way. However, when he applied it in macroeconomics, there is important assumption that the outcome actually do not differ systematically from the market equilibrium. Of course, minimal error in making prediction is other significant variables so that rational expectations work.

Recalling the problem that i had in macroeconomics, i would say that the focus is the expected price level that the wage setters set. The answer of my friend that i just mentioned is similarly like this. The wage setters would adjust the expected price level so that the nominal wage satisfied the employees. In relation with the contractionary monetary policy, a consequence generated because of the policy should have been calculated by the wage setters, such that the in the medium run, wage setters could have just set the price accordingl to lower level but goes equal with the price level itself. When it turns out that the monetary policy generates a new level price, lower one, but has no influence in other variables such as unemployment, level of output and interest rate, the wage setters should have expected it.

As a conclusion, rational expectations is required before applying strategy. It is not just about learning from the past, but how to make beneficiary from the past into certain calculation that would support rationality itself. Quoting one great mean in the past, Cicero, "History is the witness that testifies to the passing of time; it illumines reality, vitalizes memory, provides guidance in daily life and brings us tidings of antiquity". In all, history always works for rational expectations, but it depends on how we use it.

ah too bad, i make my exams as a misery history. Hope in the future, rational expectations would help me make better history. Have you make a history today?? a worth one??